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While this post still has great tips, make sure to visit the two newest blog posts about piano lessons (with more piano lesson guides)!
- This current post shared pre-reading and A Series.
- B Series – Teach Piano Lessons at Home with {FREE Lesson Plan Printables}
- C Series – Piano Lessons at Home (FREE Lesson Guides)
First I need to start this post with a disclaimer. Piano lessons from a paid teacher are very valuable! If you can find affordable piano lessons for kids, it is worth considering!
The following are suggestions for doing piano lessons at home if you are willing to take it seriously. I’d also suggest only attempting to teach your children piano if you have a good understanding of music and play the piano yourself. There is more to it than just opening the piano book to the right page! However, doing lessons ourselves at home saves me at least $45 a week! The going rate is at least $15 per lesson and I have 3 girls that want to learn to play the piano! If it ever stopped working to do the lessons at home, I would definitely pay for the lessons because they are very important to us, which keeps me motivated to make our at-home lessons work.
We take at-home piano lessons really seriously and we are loving it! I taught piano lessons for 2 years for other children, and though I loved those kids, teaching my own kids is a lot more fun for me! It is great one-on-one time with my girls and we start and end each lesson with a hug. Here are my tips on how I’ve made at-home piano lessons work for us, including MY PERSONAL LESSON PLAN PRINTABLES:
- Set a regular weekly schedule and put it on the calendar. Take this time as seriously as you would if you had an appointment with a separate teacher. That means don’t schedule play dates and dentist appointments during piano lesson time. I set aside approximately 30 minutes per lesson, though I don’t use a timer during lesson to try to stick to a time limit.
- Give each student respect and block distractions. When one of my children is having a lesson, the other kids know they are not supposed to bother us. I also keep my phone off and just focus on my little pupil.
- Use a small notebook for each child to write down practice expectations and individualized notes for each child. My kids pull out their notebooks when they practice to remember what they are supposed to do.
- For young children, use stickers to reward for every single page completed well. This is not only happy for a little student, but it breaks up the pace of the lesson to be more child friendly. The result is an overall longer attention span and happier lesson.
- Plan a goal and a celebration! When everyone finishes their current level of books, we are going to have a piano recital and party. I’ll have the girls dress up fancy like a real recital and then we will Skype in grandparents. We will have treats and an after-party. My girls already talk about our piano party we will have!
- Remind students to practice during the week. I’m all about teaching children accountability, but my kids are still a little young to remember everything on their own. I remind the girls each day to practice their piano before they have free-play after school. Children will not progress without practice. When I was teaching, I was most frustrated when kids wouldn’t practice week after week and lessons got to a stand-still … and then some parents wonder why they are paying all this money for lessons and their kids don’t seem to be learning. Practice is a crucial! Practice, practice, practice!!Β
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From my home to yours,
Mary
Holly says
I know some folks out there might say to themselves, “Oh I don’t have the patience to teach my kids piano.” As someone who has taught piano privately, I used to think the same thing in teaching my own kids. I wondered why it should be any different, though. I was so nice and patient with my young and restless pupils, why not my own progeny!? But I found a trick that worked for us. My other students called me Ms. Holly, and so I told my son Ms. Holly would be his teacher. He looked at me a little funny, but once I, his mom, left the room, dropping him off for his lesson, then came back around the corner as “Ms. Holly” he got this little grin on his face. He played along with the game really well, and looks forward to his lessons with Ms. Holly and time with his silly mom.
Anna says
Thank you for sharing this information! I have already started with my 6 year old and I think your tips and resources will be very helpful! I have already found that setting aside the time is the most difficult part!
Tamara says
My 15 month old adores our piano. I was stunned when she began fingering the keys and pretending to read the music books the FIRST time I showed it to her. Since then she wants piano time every day.
I did not play the piano a single time for her prior to setting her in front of it. Any advice on helping to nurture her interest until she is old enough for lessons?
I’ve pointed out certain keys and done a few scales for her. She seems very focused on repeating them. But mostly I just let her pretend to play.
Thank you in advance for your thoughts. I appreciate the at home lessons since we might use them early on.
Lois says
That’s great that your daughter shows such an interest! Play her a lot of beautiful piano CDs, let her fiddle with the keys on real pianos at every opportunity. Play is the best way for little ones to learn, the piano can become a cherished part of her life <3 I did it that way with my kids and now my oldest, age four, is learning to play Twinkle Twinkle Little Star not because I picked it to teach to him but because he loves piano music and wants to learn that song specifically. Let your child be your guide.
Jillian @ Hi! It's Jilly says
We just started doing piano lessons at home, too. I love your idea to start with a hug, and to skype in grandparents for the recital. Thanks for the encouragement! π
Camille says
Just curious where you buy your books. I googled and looks like Amazon, but just wondering where you like to get yours (if there’s somewhere that is cheaper than other places). Thanks!!
lisa says
Congrats on being able to inspire your own kids! Not an easy thing to do. I am a teacher and used Alfred forever till I found PA. I am sure you will love it even more. The variety of musical genres keeps em coming back for more! @ Camille — Prima Music is a great source for just about every method.
Margaret says
Thanks for the article on teaching your own children. I found when I taught piano I didn’t have time to teach my own children. So now I only teach my own children. To help me stay accountable and motivated I have a Music Monday feature on my blog!
Beth says
I’ve been doing lessons for my children (4 of 5 take lessons from me now) since my oldest was 6, so for 4-5 years now. I totally agree on set times-we have Wednesday afternoons set aside, and new this year we do a group piano lesson/games on pack meeting night-once every other month. (I’m in charge of those right now). We have set aside practice time-each night while two children are showering, the other 2 practice piano (1 at a time of course), then they switch. associating it with another regular nightly routine has helped some remember on their own.
Angela says
My nieces and nephews have been using the FreePianoLessons4Kids.com online videos to get started on the piano, and they have loved it. I took lessons as a kid (and hated them), but when I started going through the videos, I found it to be a great refresher course for me. I highly recommend them, especially as a “getting started” tool, if you want to gauge their interest before actually seeking out a paid piano teacher.
Andrea says
Aren’t those the faber books?
Mary Logan says
Hi, I looked into these books and for the Piano Adventure Course, I’m not clear on which book you’ve used for these lessons. Is it the My First or Primer? Thanks!
Mary says
The Piano Adventures is the pre-reading one.
bonnie says
Hi! I am looking up The Piano Adventures and there are several revisions… not sure which one to get- is there any way you can post a pic of the front of the book? My daughter is almost 6 and wants to learn… thank you!
Mary says
Great idea. Don’t tell, but I’m about to (like probably tonight) update with a brand new post with improved printables. I’ll try to take a few pictures of the books today to include in that post.
Christie says
So excited to hear about other moms who are teaching their own children and loving it! I started my oldest in January and it’s been so great. I’ve blogged about it, too; mostly I’ve been figuring out how to change between teacher and parent for during-the-week practice. It wasn’t super easy at first, but now we’re getting the hang of it. I love to order from Prima Music as well and prefer Faber Piano Adventures for myself. Can’t wait to read more!
Mary says
How are piano lessons going? Working still?
sheiladailie says
I had trouble keeping myself accountable, so I made arrangements with a piano teacher to alternate weeks. It cut my piano bill in half, and kept me accountable. It also helped to have someone other than me say, “You need to count out loud!” And students really DO need to count out loud. After 25 years of teaching, I think most students don’t like to count because it is extremely difficult unless they begin at the very beginning to count!
Thanks for sharing your experience. I’d encourage anyone who has not taught to visit with a “veteran” teacher about some of those little things that are easily taught at the beginning but may not seem crucial , but affect a beautiful tone later.
Mary says
Thank you so much for your advice. I think everyone should read it!
Jenny says
Thank you, thank you! Pinning this for later!
Mary says
So glad it will help you!
Jamie says
Thanks so much for this! We just got a piano from a sweet family last week and my kids are so excited to learn. I’m pretty sure dad will be teaching the lessons as he was a music major for a few years (before changing)…I think I’ll have to sign up for some lessons as well. Thanks!!
Mary says
You’re welcome! Happy music-ing! π
Jana says
I’ve been teaching my kids piano. When they start kindergarten I start their lessons. My oldest is now 13. I’m starting my 5th this year. While I don’t feel they progress as fast as they could if they were with a paid teacher, it is an excellent bonding experience for all of us. I’m so glad I went ahead to teach my own, instead of sending them to someone else. Oh, and we’re definitely working on the ability to progress more efficiently! Thank you for this blog. It’s reassuring to see others taking this on as well. I look forward to studying your resources more closely.
Mary says
I’m glad to hear that this has been working for you. Thanks for sharing!
Heather says
Thank you for making this easy for me. I know the basics of piano and am learning more everyday. I taught my daughter when she was little until she got to my level. Now she is about to start taking lessons outside the home. My son just turned 7 and I’m ready to start teaching him. Having these lessons all planned out will be a huge help! Thanks again!
Mary says
Good luck! Hope it goes well!
Lezlie-Anne says
So you do Alfred Prep OR Piano adventures, not together, correct?? Piano adventures is for younger learners??
Mary says
Yes, I wanted a pre-reading book to just “play” with my younger kids at the piano. Piano Adventures has been great for that. I’ve been using Alfred past that.
Jennifer korman says
Gonna give it a shot. We just don’t have money for lessons right now.
Mary says
Good luck!
Carlinton says
Hi Mary,
I enjoy reading this article and I am sure that many individuals will benefit after reading.
A number of adults especially mothers have shown interest in learning to play the piano and most of them would often say, “I would like my child to do piano lessons too.” Sometimes they start out well for the first month but are unable to keep up because of their busy schedule. So I suggest that they should try and learn the piano at their own convenient time and pace. I even told them that while they are learning to play the piano they should also teach their child in the process.
Many parents have said that they are enjoying their at home experience and having fun while teaching their child to play the piano. Of course, I have directed them to a number of books and online resources.
Now, the plan you have outlined is great and I am sure that a number of my “at home piano student” if I can say so, will do well with a guide like this. Thanks for sharing.
All the best π
Carlinton
Leona Bachelder says
I am also teaching my son and daughter the piano! I am just curious though, how many songs or pages do you do with your kids in one lesson?
Mary says
If you look at the printable, I get through as many pages as in each row of the printable. If everything doesn’t absorb, we just repeat.
Emily says
Your printable “curriculum” just saved me a ton of grief! I am starting a piano studio, using the next-up line of Alfred books. Reviewing your outline helped me to sit down and write up my own. I started out completely confused on how all the books worked together, and ended up with a page-by-page 39 week lesson plan. Thank you thank you thank you!
Mary says
Great! So glad!
Rachel says
Very helpful. Thank you!
Mary says
Thanks!
Michaeljp says
yeah, the classes aren’t cheap :(.
Thanks for the useful information & looking forward to read more π
Regards
Michael
Mary says
Thanks!
jennifer says
This is a true blessing for people (like us) who cannot afford lessons for our children. We will be starting as soon as we can purchase a keyboard. Are there any keyboards out there that you recommend? Thank you…can’t wait to start!
Mary says
I liked going into a music store and trying out lots. Good luck!!
Amber says
Mary, Sorry, but I can not find the link to print out the lesson plans. Could you please post that for me?? Thank you!
Mary says
You have to go to the link to download it and then print it out from there.
Kit says
This website sounds amazing. Can’t wait to check it all out.
Mary says
Thank you!
jenny says
Thank you for this site! I am going to start my almost 7 year old this summer and was a bit lost as to where to start and how to group lessons. I was taught for almost 10 years with a teacher, but needed some tips on becoming the teacher!
Mary says
You are welcome! Good luck with the lessons!
Karin says
THANK YOU for your lesson plans! I spent A LOT of time doing this in a different format – but I love your layout on this. Thank you for sharing π Excited to start the declutter challenge – what a gem your blog is !!
Mary says
You are so welcome! I’m so happy to share! What a gem you are for your kind comment. π
Aaron says
Great, can I get newsletters from u
N big notes for my kid to learn playing piano
Mary says
Sure! There is a subscription box on the sidebar if you’re viewing this on a desktop or at the bottom if you’re on a mobile device. π
Cynthia says
Ran across this post recently. I’m wondering how piano is going for you guys? If you are still teaching I would love to do a skype recital and hear everyone play!
Mary says
Still plugging along at piano. My mom is teaching them now that we’re close to her. Fun idea. π
Richard Hill says
Hi, thanks for sharing the brilliant piano lessons idea. This is great, it helps a lot to everybody, thanks again..!
Mary says
You’re welcome! π
Sarah says
Hi, just wondering what piano you are using? I am wanting to buy a digital piano and need some advice!
Mary says
It is a Kawaii. I love it! It has been the perfect model for us. I dream of a grand piano, but this one is just so functional. The keys and pedals are weighted to feel more like a real piano and it has all the keys, the sound is great too. I’m not sure the exact model, but if you go to a dealer and make sure it has all those features. Maybe they can tell by the picture on my post? Or email me and it will remind me to look for the model number when I can. π
Jana says
Thank you for this post as it encourages me to start and teach my own kids. My problem is to scheduling the time and sticking to it. We had troubles with that before so I never continued. I will make an effort this year and see where it can take us. It is my dream to want to love piano like I do.
Thanks!
Mary says
It can be hard. Just remind yourself of all the money you’re saving!!!