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February 25, 2014

Quarter Jars – Rewarding Good Behavior

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Quarter Jars - Rewarding good behavior

I have regular kids. What I mean by that is not that they aren’t my absolute favorite kids in the whole universe, but that they have normal kid tendencies. They need to be reminded to do their routines and chores. They can sometimes fight with each other or disobey. They leave messes out and don’t remember to clear their place after every single meal.

The thing is, I am a big believer in bribery. Or for the politically correct, let’s call it Reinforcing Positive Behavior. One day my kids will learn there is an intrinsic value to doing the right thing, but kids aren’t programmed to “feel good” about following their after school routine or putting their laundry away. That is where rewards come in handy.

And any good reward system is easy. Easy for parents and easy for kids. For my family, quarter jars work. And one of the reasons it works, is it is really easy to follow through and maintain. And another thing, the setup is not an eyesore. Beautiful things seem to stick longer, ya know?

Once we’ve rewarded a good behavior until it becomes a habit, we can focus on rewarding a different behavior. Slowly and steadily helping the kids for better habits. And of course, it always works perfectly … wink, wink. But we keep trying.

Quarter Jars - Rewarding good behavior --- very easy to make

I created one jar for each of my three girls and then there is a jar that holds the reward quarters. At any given point during the day when I want to reinforce something good, I can say “get yourself a quarter.” They go to the table and get themselves a quarter. Since I designed the quarter jars as part of the table’s centerpiece, they are always there and easy to access! Since quarters are money, and the kids like to have their own money to spend, they are excited to go put a quarter in their jar. Quarters add up!!

Each girl is also allowed to give one of their sisters a quarter each day, so they can reward kindnesses between siblings.

We love Quarter Jars because they work!!

The coin receptacle tops are out from card-stock paper. They fasten on to the mason jars really easily. I chose some fun vintage-looking blue mason jars. The ribbon around the tops marks the jar’s owner. Easy, easy.

Quarter Jars --- Rewarding good behavior

Have you done something good today? Have your kids? Look closely, I think you’ll find something worth rewarding!

From my home to yours,
Mary

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  1. Karin Alvarado says

    February 25, 2014 at 8:52 am

    I love this. We do ours in the form of an allowance. I have one that will even share her allowance with her friends if they help her with her chores.

    They have chores they do because they live there, chores they are paid for and extra chores to earn extra money.

    In the same respect, if I ask them to do something a few times and they don’t do it, they have to pay me $1. This has been working well. (Plus, I always put the $1 in our vacation jar.) So it’s still “working for them.”

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    • Mary says

      February 26, 2014 at 10:13 pm

      You are such an awesome mom! Your girls are so lucky!

      Reply
    • Valerie says

      March 6, 2016 at 8:32 am

      I love the idea of having your kids pay you for having to remind them too many times!! And putting it in the vacation jar is a win-win! Thanks for sharing!!

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      • Mary says

        March 6, 2016 at 10:07 pm

        Thanks πŸ™‚

        Reply
  2. leighpfLeigh says

    February 25, 2014 at 2:11 pm

    We do something similar with pompoms for our preschoolers

    Reply
    • Mary says

      February 26, 2014 at 10:13 pm

      That sounds adorable!

      Reply
  3. Dixie says

    September 23, 2015 at 8:14 am

    This is wonderful. What is the Jar with sticks in it?

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  4. Jill says

    March 27, 2016 at 12:25 pm

    Love this!

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    • Mary says

      April 3, 2016 at 5:37 pm

      Thank you!

      Reply
  5. Jill says

    March 27, 2016 at 12:30 pm

    We also work on a virtue of the month. (An idea i got from another Moms blog. πŸ˜‰ This month we are working on gratitude and being thankful.

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    • Mary says

      April 3, 2016 at 5:38 pm

      That is a good one! Gratitude really changes everything with kids!

      Reply
  6. Melanie says

    August 26, 2017 at 11:10 am

    If they give one of their sisters a quarter, does it come from your jar or do they take it from theirs?

    Reply
    • Mary says

      August 27, 2017 at 2:56 pm

      Our jar. πŸ™‚

      Reply

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